Here's my advice though: It doesn't sound like you want that though, so you're going to have to talk to him. Log into your account. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs. Everything we do when we are together seems to be pre-planned and must be executed just so, right down to unexpectedly turning off the lights at And I can relate to the walking on eggshells feeling when they are home. I got married to a Mormon woman. Basically this is different than dating a religious mainstream Christian. Do you think I need to have some sort of commitment from him before I can make that decision. I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. I also think that if marriage outside the covenant is a sin, it is not so grave as to be unforgivable.
Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. I can completely relate to all the other doctor' s wives feelings and life experiences. We like each other, but I feel like giving up also at times. March 19, And congratulations, "lovableluciferian" for walking away from the precipice of an untenable relationship. During "Netflix and chill" the other night, I noticed there was a documentary about mormons. I would rather being with a man who makes less and is faithful but that is just me!. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. OP, I'm not a med student, just a plain old grad student. When we were dating he made it very clear to me that he had no desire to come back to church.
Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. I don't see anywhere in your post where there is a complete commitment. Somehow I never believed any of that; I wanted a career and a small family and never believed religion was a way to identify good character.
Thanks for the help. I still cry every night for himbecause I love himprobably always will. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. She started crying when I explained this to her. He's just wrapping up his first year. Maybe there is wisdom behind some of the peculiarities. Now those are not the problems in my head anymore, whats in my head is how arewe goin to deal with this, ive told her sometimes u wont have anytime for me nor for your kids if we decide to have kids you wont be at the holidays nothing like that and she is always tryin to see everything positive and tells me dont worry ill schedule myself, and im like baby you will not be able to schedule urself your life would be in a hospital. We are very blessed.